Heart2Heart Talk

"Fall in love in awfully simple, but fall out of love is simply awfull."

         Dealing with break-up is always seem awful, right? Especially if u'r the one hoping it would last. Kadang  seringkali terlintas, "Kok jadi gini?" "Memang aku salah apa sih?" "Misalkan aja pas itu aku enggak.." and all the thoughts that wondering on my mind. Tapi akhirnya aku sadar kalau kadang sesuatu terjadi bukan untuk dipertanyakan, tapi untuk dihadapi. Aku sadar kalau ternyata selama ini aku tidak menjadi sesorang yang baik, untuk diriku sendiri. To let yourself dwell on the past, yeah it was no good at all.

Kadang yang bikin susah itu bukan karena kita masih sayang dan lain sebagainya, tapi karena the adjustment and the attachment. I realize that it wasn't the love that holding me back, it was the attachment to the person. Yeah he's always been there for me and we spend a lot of time together, and now I need to adjust. It is hard, but it is a process after all. Try to connect the dots, cause everything did happen for a reason(s).

I've been here before, last year to be exact. Weeping and dealing over the break up, with the same person. *sigh* Tapi kali ini I'm doing it the right way :-) I'm focusing on me, and living the moment rather than dealing with negativity. To be a better me, I learn that I have to feel empowered and not victimized by it. And yeah, if the time is right, I will love again. And it will be a better love.

"Whatever happened in the past, it preapared u for now, and now is full of opportunities for growth, peace and happiness." -

mind to share ur break-up stories guys?